Sunday, April 19, 2009
Saturday, April 11, 2009
compatible
What's compatibility all about?
Everytime my mom returns from a wedding, she'd casually comment "the bride and bridegroom very compatible! they look soo nice together!" or "the couple so not compatible! the guy sooo big, the girl so small!" etc etc.
Not jus my mom, I feel many look at compatibily as just physical compatibily. the qtn is, 'do they look gud together when they're out?" But as far as i'm concerned, tt's wad compatibility in a relationship isn't about.
I know there are some who think Muzzy and I are not compatible. I absolutely disagree. But tell me u think we're physically no match and I will agree whole-heartedly. I mean come on. he's tall, i'm short. he's fair, i'm dark. he's smalll, i'm biggggggggg. we're jus soo opposite physically. (i dun intend to do anything abt my skin colour neither do i intend to take complan to become taller but one day, one fine day i shall bcum jus as sexy as muzzy! hehehehh)
As for me, i feel compatibility is beyond what's on the outside. I would believe a couple are compatible if they're able to exist in harmony together, if they have similar thoughts pertaining to important life issues and even if there are differences between, them they're able to complement one another. By this definition,I think we're compatible. U've no idea how it amuses me when muzzy finishes my sentences or has the same view/opinion/likes/dislikes as me. it can get so exciting to know there's a soul in the world who thinks just like you do. and when there's differences, I'm the least bothered caz i know those differences are respected. so now tell me, we're compatible aren't we?
But i admit it's nice to see couples who look gud together on top of being compatible! haha this is random but as i finished typing the last sentence, there were 3 couples on my mind! my bestest buddy Siti and her bf Ashraff, Yasmin and her hubby n Naf and Sham! I think they look so nicee together. it's like an added bonus! :)
Everytime my mom returns from a wedding, she'd casually comment "the bride and bridegroom very compatible! they look soo nice together!" or "the couple so not compatible! the guy sooo big, the girl so small!" etc etc.
Not jus my mom, I feel many look at compatibily as just physical compatibily. the qtn is, 'do they look gud together when they're out?" But as far as i'm concerned, tt's wad compatibility in a relationship isn't about.
I know there are some who think Muzzy and I are not compatible. I absolutely disagree. But tell me u think we're physically no match and I will agree whole-heartedly. I mean come on. he's tall, i'm short. he's fair, i'm dark. he's smalll, i'm biggggggggg. we're jus soo opposite physically. (i dun intend to do anything abt my skin colour neither do i intend to take complan to become taller but one day, one fine day i shall bcum jus as sexy as muzzy! hehehehh)
As for me, i feel compatibility is beyond what's on the outside. I would believe a couple are compatible if they're able to exist in harmony together, if they have similar thoughts pertaining to important life issues and even if there are differences between, them they're able to complement one another. By this definition,I think we're compatible. U've no idea how it amuses me when muzzy finishes my sentences or has the same view/opinion/likes/dislikes as me. it can get so exciting to know there's a soul in the world who thinks just like you do. and when there's differences, I'm the least bothered caz i know those differences are respected. so now tell me, we're compatible aren't we?
But i admit it's nice to see couples who look gud together on top of being compatible! haha this is random but as i finished typing the last sentence, there were 3 couples on my mind! my bestest buddy Siti and her bf Ashraff, Yasmin and her hubby n Naf and Sham! I think they look so nicee together. it's like an added bonus! :)
Friday, April 3, 2009
ten
1) I need more discipline and control in my life.
2) I think acting dumb/blur is cool and has it's advantages.
3) Give me ur opinion only when i ask for it. in case u happen to have sth to say for anything and everything abt me, i go by the one-ear-in-one-ear-out rule.
4) I'm starting to dislike sms. it's either i forget to reply or i'm too lazy to. I'd rather settle stuff over the phone.
5) I think it's mean to put some1 down bacaz of the way they look,wad they wear,how they walk etc etc. i see it happening among girls esp n i get really annoyed.But of caz, me being me, i dun usually say anything. ( i mite hve done it in the past tho i resolve not to do tt anymore.)
6) I'm very big on respect but i dun believe in respecting some1 just because they're older than i am. i need better reasons to respect any1.
7) I miss jc life n vits and deeps and nivy and machan and 33/06!
8) I wish for a certain family member of mine to be less of a tension party.
9) Any girl who has a bro who loves her, dotes on her and most importantly, shows her that he loves her, is an object of my hmmmmmmmmmm.. jealousy.
10) watching confessions of a shopaholic was like a wake up call. I seriously need to stop spending!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and my younger sis is the best financial consultant.
2) I think acting dumb/blur is cool and has it's advantages.
3) Give me ur opinion only when i ask for it. in case u happen to have sth to say for anything and everything abt me, i go by the one-ear-in-one-ear-out rule.
4) I'm starting to dislike sms. it's either i forget to reply or i'm too lazy to. I'd rather settle stuff over the phone.
5) I think it's mean to put some1 down bacaz of the way they look,wad they wear,how they walk etc etc. i see it happening among girls esp n i get really annoyed.But of caz, me being me, i dun usually say anything. ( i mite hve done it in the past tho i resolve not to do tt anymore.)
6) I'm very big on respect but i dun believe in respecting some1 just because they're older than i am. i need better reasons to respect any1.
7) I miss jc life n vits and deeps and nivy and machan and 33/06!
8) I wish for a certain family member of mine to be less of a tension party.
9) Any girl who has a bro who loves her, dotes on her and most importantly, shows her that he loves her, is an object of my hmmmmmmmmmm.. jealousy.
10) watching confessions of a shopaholic was like a wake up call. I seriously need to stop spending!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and my younger sis is the best financial consultant.
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