compatible

What's compatibility all about?

Everytime my mom returns from a wedding, she'd casually comment "the bride and bridegroom very compatible! they look soo nice together!" or "the couple so not compatible! the guy sooo big, the girl so small!" etc etc.

Not jus my mom, I feel many look at compatibily as just physical compatibily. the qtn is, 'do they look gud together when they're out?" But as far as i'm concerned, tt's wad compatibility in a relationship isn't about.

I know there are some who think Muzzy and I are not compatible. I absolutely disagree. But tell me u think we're physically no match and I will agree whole-heartedly. I mean come on. he's tall, i'm short. he's fair, i'm dark. he's smalll, i'm biggggggggg. we're jus soo opposite physically. (i dun intend to do anything abt my skin colour neither do i intend to take complan to become taller but one day, one fine day i shall bcum jus as sexy as muzzy! hehehehh)

As for me, i feel compatibility is beyond what's on the outside. I would believe a couple are compatible if they're able to exist in harmony together, if they have similar thoughts pertaining to important life issues and even if there are differences between, them they're able to complement one another. By this definition,I think we're compatible. U've no idea how it amuses me when muzzy finishes my sentences or has the same view/opinion/likes/dislikes as me. it can get so exciting to know there's a soul in the world who thinks just like you do. and when there's differences, I'm the least bothered caz i know those differences are respected. so now tell me, we're compatible aren't we?

But i admit it's nice to see couples who look gud together on top of being compatible! haha this is random but as i finished typing the last sentence, there were 3 couples on my mind! my bestest buddy Siti and her bf Ashraff, Yasmin and her hubby n Naf and Sham! I think they look so nicee together. it's like an added bonus! :)