I loved yesterday! Awesome. At a time when i totally needed a break. Looking forward to the next one! =)And Sugan, i will make it up to you for being such a lazybum, promise! haha
Thursday, September 23, 2010
Sugan + Naf + Nas = TOTAL FUN!
I loved yesterday! Awesome. At a time when i totally needed a break. Looking forward to the next one! =)And Sugan, i will make it up to you for being such a lazybum, promise! haha
Saturday, August 28, 2010
My blog's still alive!
Thought tt shoutout was necessary. Haven had the inspiration to blog lately. And yes, I'm not gonna make a serious effort to sound coherent as far as this post is concerned. Jus anything n everything tt comes to my mind.
Ramadhan's here n it's been a great 17 days. Looking fwd to the next 13. Among all the other things, this is the month i feel like singing aloud the praises of this miracle called H2O. Plain water is the best water! (potential fb status update!)
This sem is by Comparison the most demanding/challenging one. I'm drowning in the amount of work tt needs to be done. Doesn't help tt none of the lecturers provide notes. I'm doing arabic as well. Very cool if not for the fact tt it takes up 6 hours of my time every week. Bring it on I say. I will pull through insha allah.
I suddenly am very full of regrets. I used to look forward to being in yr 3 so i can get out of uni. Now i'm not sure. I wish i was a freshie all over again. It sucks to look baq now. There's sooooo much i cud haf done tt i didn't. If u're remotely thinking of telling me I shudn be regretting n there's no pt, save yourself. there truly is a pt regretting. I digress. Coming baq To what I was saying, i am having mixed feeling abt my last yr in NUS. Funny but i'm not exactly excited to get out of here. I guess we get too comfortable where we are. I guess sumtimes we dun wanna grow up. I guess.. I kinda like NUS. Yes i do. I'm not surprised tt u're surprised i'm saying this. I'm surprised myself!
That a lecturer could ignite within me a true passion in my field of study after 2 years of me studying it rather aimlessly, is amazing. That a lecturer sumhw makes me reflect abt hw i've spent my 2 years in uni critically is inspiring. I am not sure how to pen down what i'm thinking aptly, but i honestly admire n m inspired by you.
I watched Madrasapattinam recently. The trailers made me expect sth close to a historical acct of india's route to independance. But i was so wrong. It's abt a love story set in india during the time it was gonna gain independance. I'm not here to do a movie review of madrasapattinam but if u've yet to watch it, it wud suffice to say that it wud be worth every min of your time. So far, the best movie of 2010 for me.
And Gv prakash's music.. Awesome! I think i am already becoming his fan. As if repeating his songs on my ipod prove my loyalty to him, i've been listening to pookal pookum again and again and again and again. I loveee the lyrics too.
"Vaalindri Porindri Valikkindra yuttam indri, ithu yenna ivan anbu yennai velluthae?"
Beautiful.
Tt's all for now. :)
Ramadhan's here n it's been a great 17 days. Looking fwd to the next 13. Among all the other things, this is the month i feel like singing aloud the praises of this miracle called H2O. Plain water is the best water! (potential fb status update!)
This sem is by Comparison the most demanding/challenging one. I'm drowning in the amount of work tt needs to be done. Doesn't help tt none of the lecturers provide notes. I'm doing arabic as well. Very cool if not for the fact tt it takes up 6 hours of my time every week. Bring it on I say. I will pull through insha allah.
I suddenly am very full of regrets. I used to look forward to being in yr 3 so i can get out of uni. Now i'm not sure. I wish i was a freshie all over again. It sucks to look baq now. There's sooooo much i cud haf done tt i didn't. If u're remotely thinking of telling me I shudn be regretting n there's no pt, save yourself. there truly is a pt regretting. I digress. Coming baq To what I was saying, i am having mixed feeling abt my last yr in NUS. Funny but i'm not exactly excited to get out of here. I guess we get too comfortable where we are. I guess sumtimes we dun wanna grow up. I guess.. I kinda like NUS. Yes i do. I'm not surprised tt u're surprised i'm saying this. I'm surprised myself!
That a lecturer could ignite within me a true passion in my field of study after 2 years of me studying it rather aimlessly, is amazing. That a lecturer sumhw makes me reflect abt hw i've spent my 2 years in uni critically is inspiring. I am not sure how to pen down what i'm thinking aptly, but i honestly admire n m inspired by you.
I watched Madrasapattinam recently. The trailers made me expect sth close to a historical acct of india's route to independance. But i was so wrong. It's abt a love story set in india during the time it was gonna gain independance. I'm not here to do a movie review of madrasapattinam but if u've yet to watch it, it wud suffice to say that it wud be worth every min of your time. So far, the best movie of 2010 for me.
And Gv prakash's music.. Awesome! I think i am already becoming his fan. As if repeating his songs on my ipod prove my loyalty to him, i've been listening to pookal pookum again and again and again and again. I loveee the lyrics too.
"Vaalindri Porindri Valikkindra yuttam indri, ithu yenna ivan anbu yennai velluthae?"
Beautiful.
Tt's all for now. :)
Saturday, April 10, 2010
Sorry, I'm late!
I'm sure you guys have had your share of 'late' friends and probably haven't had great experiences with these 'late' people. Or who knows? Maybe you're the Mr/Miss Late yourself! (you culprit!)
I won't pretend that I've never ever been late before. I have, on many occasions. I won't pretend I've never ever pressed the snooze button on my phone a countless times and then slept off and eventually woke up to realise i've overslept. I admit, it has happened to me too. The key thing here is, it happens but once in a blue moon. Plus, if I'm late, I'm not dangerously late. Probably 5-10 mins. On time is ideal. But 5, 10 mins late, I think that's ok. I can excuse you.
Why are some people perpetually late? Just what is their special relationship with the clock that they are just not able to work with it? I'm not sure. Let me tell you, some late people have mystical powers. They can be in 2 places at the same time! (if you're one of those earlybirds and can't relate to the behavior of late people, and hence don't understand what I'm saying, allow me to explain. Say u plan to meet a late friend in Pasir Ris. Beware, your friend has special powers. He/she can be near pasir ris and at his/her house in boon lay at the same time! How did he/she do that man?! Amazing!)
Oh, and another point. If a person is on time, he/she can also belong to the late people group. Wanna know how? Say you guys are supposed to meet at 3. At 2.59, you get a call from this person : "hey sorry, meet at 3.15." okie. 3.14, another call : hey sorry sorry, meet at 3.30!!" this thing continues and you eventually meet at 5. Technically, your friend will be on time. But here's the catch : he/she is120mins late! Watch out for people who keep postponing the meeting time, don't fall for the trap!
Okie really, why are some people late most of the time? If you're always late, It could be that
1) You absolutely have no heart to give up your sleep and what do you gain from being on time, anyway?!
Wad you need: a hard knock on the head. Especially if you're meeting someone.
2) You overestimate your abilities. You think you have supernatural powers. You think it takes you 10 seconds to freshen up, have your meal, get ready and leave your house. What's wrong with you?!
What U need: a very powerful stopwatch to time how long you take to bathe, eat, etc. In the hope that at least then you will realise it takes exponentially more than 10 seconds to do all of that!
3) You believe in being fashionably late. Say you're a lady going for a party. You know there are gonna be hot guys there. So you decide to go late. You know the grand entrance effect?
The moment you enter all the hot guys turn simultaneously to look at you and swoon over you. Wow, wad a great feeling!
What you need: a bit of cow sense. See, prob is you think you're thinking out of the box. But you're not. There are many other girls out there who probably think the same way and they're all ready to spoil your market. And, don't be so self-absorbed can! The whole world is not awaiting for your grand arrival. Honestly, there's nothing fashionable about being late. Allow me to call you a fashion disaster because you just got it wrong.
4) You take 15 minutes to brush your teeth, 1 hour to bathe, 1 hour to prepare your meal and another hour to eat. How on earth are you gonna be on time?
Wad you need: You need to speed up. Seriously. Don't argue that 'slow and steady wins the race'. First, slow is a clear understatement of your slowness. Second, you are not steady!! Third, if slow and steady person were to compete with a fast and steady person, I wonder who will win. Any ideas?? Hmm... Haha, trust me, won't kill to speed up a little!
With so much said, you must be thinking i'm against late people. Not really. Probably because I tend to have a high tolerance level. Second, if I know someone is late, I just take the necessary precautions (haha) so most of the time I'm ok with late people. But I'm human too, sometimes I too get annoyed. It's not a nice feeling I tell you. you wasted precious seconds of your life just waiting for your late friend and he/she get away with 'I'm sorry, I'm late'?! You can choose to make a fuss, if you had hope in your friend. Or you can resolve to give your friend a taste of their own medicine and always be later than them. Haha. Otherwise just don't care. Your friend's not gonna change and you can't turn back time anyway.
I won't pretend that I've never ever been late before. I have, on many occasions. I won't pretend I've never ever pressed the snooze button on my phone a countless times and then slept off and eventually woke up to realise i've overslept. I admit, it has happened to me too. The key thing here is, it happens but once in a blue moon. Plus, if I'm late, I'm not dangerously late. Probably 5-10 mins. On time is ideal. But 5, 10 mins late, I think that's ok. I can excuse you.
Why are some people perpetually late? Just what is their special relationship with the clock that they are just not able to work with it? I'm not sure. Let me tell you, some late people have mystical powers. They can be in 2 places at the same time! (if you're one of those earlybirds and can't relate to the behavior of late people, and hence don't understand what I'm saying, allow me to explain. Say u plan to meet a late friend in Pasir Ris. Beware, your friend has special powers. He/she can be near pasir ris and at his/her house in boon lay at the same time! How did he/she do that man?! Amazing!)
Oh, and another point. If a person is on time, he/she can also belong to the late people group. Wanna know how? Say you guys are supposed to meet at 3. At 2.59, you get a call from this person : "hey sorry, meet at 3.15." okie. 3.14, another call : hey sorry sorry, meet at 3.30!!" this thing continues and you eventually meet at 5. Technically, your friend will be on time. But here's the catch : he/she is120mins late! Watch out for people who keep postponing the meeting time, don't fall for the trap!
Okie really, why are some people late most of the time? If you're always late, It could be that
1) You absolutely have no heart to give up your sleep and what do you gain from being on time, anyway?!
Wad you need: a hard knock on the head. Especially if you're meeting someone.
2) You overestimate your abilities. You think you have supernatural powers. You think it takes you 10 seconds to freshen up, have your meal, get ready and leave your house. What's wrong with you?!
What U need: a very powerful stopwatch to time how long you take to bathe, eat, etc. In the hope that at least then you will realise it takes exponentially more than 10 seconds to do all of that!
3) You believe in being fashionably late. Say you're a lady going for a party. You know there are gonna be hot guys there. So you decide to go late. You know the grand entrance effect?
The moment you enter all the hot guys turn simultaneously to look at you and swoon over you. Wow, wad a great feeling!
What you need: a bit of cow sense. See, prob is you think you're thinking out of the box. But you're not. There are many other girls out there who probably think the same way and they're all ready to spoil your market. And, don't be so self-absorbed can! The whole world is not awaiting for your grand arrival. Honestly, there's nothing fashionable about being late. Allow me to call you a fashion disaster because you just got it wrong.
4) You take 15 minutes to brush your teeth, 1 hour to bathe, 1 hour to prepare your meal and another hour to eat. How on earth are you gonna be on time?
Wad you need: You need to speed up. Seriously. Don't argue that 'slow and steady wins the race'. First, slow is a clear understatement of your slowness. Second, you are not steady!! Third, if slow and steady person were to compete with a fast and steady person, I wonder who will win. Any ideas?? Hmm... Haha, trust me, won't kill to speed up a little!
With so much said, you must be thinking i'm against late people. Not really. Probably because I tend to have a high tolerance level. Second, if I know someone is late, I just take the necessary precautions (haha) so most of the time I'm ok with late people. But I'm human too, sometimes I too get annoyed. It's not a nice feeling I tell you. you wasted precious seconds of your life just waiting for your late friend and he/she get away with 'I'm sorry, I'm late'?! You can choose to make a fuss, if you had hope in your friend. Or you can resolve to give your friend a taste of their own medicine and always be later than them. Haha. Otherwise just don't care. Your friend's not gonna change and you can't turn back time anyway.
:)
I've always liked Vickram n shahid kapoor.. Joining the list next is... (drumrolls pls!!!) KARTI! U rock :)
Friday, February 19, 2010
Nijangal!
I'm a Nijangal fan - and i'm proud to be one!
It's rare to find me watching tv much less following any drama on any channel. That's why i'm so surprised that I actually follow Nijangal so religiously. I must have missed close to 20-30 episodes but ever sice I started watching, I haven stopped. It's addictive!
And I don't like it when people say it's just a drama. Well, as a matter of fact, it is. But if so may people are talking about it, then I guess it's safe to say it's sth more than just a drama. Reality perhaps. Reflective of the essence of the problems as we face it today. So nicely captured.
If you asked me, it'll make a great play. How nice would it be if the whole script was compiled into a play and if it was taught at the O/A level as one of the books for tamil lit? I rmb studying books like 'Aasiya jothi' and 'taliyaalangaanat talaivan'. i rmb not understanding what those titles meant too. They were great but woudn't it be better if we had read sth we cud relate to? Like njangal I mean. hehe.
Part of today's episode had to do with Hari and his illegal affair. A clear juxtaposition of Yamuna with Lalitha. Hari basically cheats on his wife who's too busy with her own family to indulge her husband with attention. Lalitha, Yamuna's best fren pounces on this chance and gives Hari all the attention he needs. Hari is then drawn to Lalitha.. Naturally, the heart yearns for some care and attention,huh?
Cheating is wrong, we all know that. But it's the other details that complicate it. Hari is not cheating for the sake of cheating, is he? His wife isn't giving him the time and attention that he needs. Therefore, he looks for it outside his marriage. Tadaa! Lalitha offers him an attractive package. Everything that he's missing out on. (i don't want to talk more about Lalitha caz she's jus plain evil) Let's come back to Yamuna. She hasn't exactly been doing a great job balancing both her family and her hubby. Shouldn't Hari be helping her out at times like this? He's yet to even tell Yamuna anything. Whereas Yamuna made an effort to talk to hari about her difficulties.
If everyone who's married ventures outside when the going gets tough, then what's the point of getting married in the first place? You're not even there when your partner needs you. Marriage is sacred okie.
I said earlier that cheating is wrong and that the details make it even harder to point fingers at just Hari or Yamuna or Lalitha and say one of them is in the wrong. But then again, cheating is wrong and whatever the details may be, that won't change! So yes, in my eyes, Hari IS wrong. He had other alternatives, like talking things out. If you've really lost it for Yamuna, then divorce her and marry Lalitha. That way you won't err you see.
What you see now is a preview of what I would be like 10-20-30-40 years down the road when i eventually decide to become a housewife and have some time for the tv. On top of worrying about my kids and their homework, the household chores, the cooking, and whether i'm giving my husband enough attention to make sure he doesn't cheat on me, i'd probably be worrying about the episode I watched the night before! I can so foresee that happening. If vasantham airs more of such quality dramas that is!
It's rare to find me watching tv much less following any drama on any channel. That's why i'm so surprised that I actually follow Nijangal so religiously. I must have missed close to 20-30 episodes but ever sice I started watching, I haven stopped. It's addictive!
And I don't like it when people say it's just a drama. Well, as a matter of fact, it is. But if so may people are talking about it, then I guess it's safe to say it's sth more than just a drama. Reality perhaps. Reflective of the essence of the problems as we face it today. So nicely captured.
If you asked me, it'll make a great play. How nice would it be if the whole script was compiled into a play and if it was taught at the O/A level as one of the books for tamil lit? I rmb studying books like 'Aasiya jothi' and 'taliyaalangaanat talaivan'. i rmb not understanding what those titles meant too. They were great but woudn't it be better if we had read sth we cud relate to? Like njangal I mean. hehe.
Part of today's episode had to do with Hari and his illegal affair. A clear juxtaposition of Yamuna with Lalitha. Hari basically cheats on his wife who's too busy with her own family to indulge her husband with attention. Lalitha, Yamuna's best fren pounces on this chance and gives Hari all the attention he needs. Hari is then drawn to Lalitha.. Naturally, the heart yearns for some care and attention,huh?
Cheating is wrong, we all know that. But it's the other details that complicate it. Hari is not cheating for the sake of cheating, is he? His wife isn't giving him the time and attention that he needs. Therefore, he looks for it outside his marriage. Tadaa! Lalitha offers him an attractive package. Everything that he's missing out on. (i don't want to talk more about Lalitha caz she's jus plain evil) Let's come back to Yamuna. She hasn't exactly been doing a great job balancing both her family and her hubby. Shouldn't Hari be helping her out at times like this? He's yet to even tell Yamuna anything. Whereas Yamuna made an effort to talk to hari about her difficulties.
If everyone who's married ventures outside when the going gets tough, then what's the point of getting married in the first place? You're not even there when your partner needs you. Marriage is sacred okie.
I said earlier that cheating is wrong and that the details make it even harder to point fingers at just Hari or Yamuna or Lalitha and say one of them is in the wrong. But then again, cheating is wrong and whatever the details may be, that won't change! So yes, in my eyes, Hari IS wrong. He had other alternatives, like talking things out. If you've really lost it for Yamuna, then divorce her and marry Lalitha. That way you won't err you see.
What you see now is a preview of what I would be like 10-20-30-40 years down the road when i eventually decide to become a housewife and have some time for the tv. On top of worrying about my kids and their homework, the household chores, the cooking, and whether i'm giving my husband enough attention to make sure he doesn't cheat on me, i'd probably be worrying about the episode I watched the night before! I can so foresee that happening. If vasantham airs more of such quality dramas that is!
Friday, January 8, 2010
There's a very thin line between harmless fun and bullying/embarrassing/insulting people. You cross the limit, the least you offer is an apology. You don't just brush it aside saying "you shouldn't take it soo seriously, it was all in the name of fun" If it happened to you, it won't be funny anymore, rest assured. Don't go overboard, there's a limit to everything!
Thursday, January 7, 2010
She Did Not Deserve to be Molested at Siloso Beach! (Really?)
I'm guessing you have a rough idea as to what i'm talking about. If you're not too sure, check this out : http://www.asiaone.com/News/AsiaOne%2BNews/Singapore/Story/A1Story20100104-189643.html
This is what I think. I wouldn't say she did not deserve to be molested. She was drunk + countdown party + bikini + 4 guys molesting her = her fault. Not being heartless, but she was vulnerable. And looks like she was alone. I mean you go to such parties, at the least u need to protect yourself! Can't say she's not at all responsible; She let the guys take advantage of her and that's exactly what they did.
But that's not to say I support the guys.. If the girl disgusts me, the guys disgust me even more. I can't believe the audacity of those guy.. they actually groped her on an elevated platform! not that it would have been less bad if they'd molested her somewhere private, but still, what were they thinking??!! And to top it off, they were foreign workers. Nice. Trying very hard to tarnish your already badly tarnished image in Singapore.
Oh, and you know what caught my attention? the part abt no one coming forward to help! What's happening? so many videos and photos of this incident up on the net and yet no one came forward to help? If i'm not wrong, pple don't go for such parties alone. So why didn't anyone help her? You's rather watch the show then try help that helpless girl? Maybe that's how we singaporeans work. But hey if i was with a group of friends, (preferable with some guys) i would've made sure we did something to help.
Still, i dun intend to join that "She Did Not Deserve to be Molested at Siloso Beach!"facebook group. In my eyes, The girl wasn't truly victimzed and they guys weren't totally to blame. It's sad it happened though. And i find the statement quite funny. If she did not deserve to be molested at Siloso beach, then Palawan Beack okie anot?hahah. Oh dear, the lame side of me kicking in. Have a great day everyone!
This is what I think. I wouldn't say she did not deserve to be molested. She was drunk + countdown party + bikini + 4 guys molesting her = her fault. Not being heartless, but she was vulnerable. And looks like she was alone. I mean you go to such parties, at the least u need to protect yourself! Can't say she's not at all responsible; She let the guys take advantage of her and that's exactly what they did.
But that's not to say I support the guys.. If the girl disgusts me, the guys disgust me even more. I can't believe the audacity of those guy.. they actually groped her on an elevated platform! not that it would have been less bad if they'd molested her somewhere private, but still, what were they thinking??!! And to top it off, they were foreign workers. Nice. Trying very hard to tarnish your already badly tarnished image in Singapore.
Oh, and you know what caught my attention? the part abt no one coming forward to help! What's happening? so many videos and photos of this incident up on the net and yet no one came forward to help? If i'm not wrong, pple don't go for such parties alone. So why didn't anyone help her? You's rather watch the show then try help that helpless girl? Maybe that's how we singaporeans work. But hey if i was with a group of friends, (preferable with some guys) i would've made sure we did something to help.
Still, i dun intend to join that "She Did Not Deserve to be Molested at Siloso Beach!"facebook group. In my eyes, The girl wasn't truly victimzed and they guys weren't totally to blame. It's sad it happened though. And i find the statement quite funny. If she did not deserve to be molested at Siloso beach, then Palawan Beack okie anot?hahah. Oh dear, the lame side of me kicking in. Have a great day everyone!
Thursday, December 24, 2009
All you guys are just the same.
I really can't believe this.. How could you do this to me Muzzy? After all these wonderful years, I can't believe you left me for that Bitch!! if i ever see her around, i will seriously murder her! you have no idea how much this has hurt me! i will never ever forgive you! i cried the whole of last night and the tears are still flowing!! You of all people.. I never expected you to leave me like that! i should have never trusted you! I hate guys!! all are just the same!!
Seriously, don't tell me you fell for that! Of course that was fake! hahah.
Okie now let's come to the point. I typed out that whole paragraph not just for fun. That's the reaction you are likely to (not always though) get when a girl just had a bad break up. No brainer right.. This is what usually follows the break up.
1. they are all reduced to the same cliche ==> "All guys are just the same." (This is the same guy they said they would love forever and ever and ever till their last breath just some time ago).
2. suddenly, you'd see them saying stuff like "I have many other stuff to concentrate on anw, i shouldn't be wasting my time on relationships now." (why did u commit urself in a r/s in the first place? bad loser.)
3. They attack love. What u may see is "true love is for fools", "true love does not exist" and the funniest of the lot, "love is a word i will never learn to pronounce" (If i'm not wrong this is from some song, one of my facebook fren had this as her nick. funny i tell you. You must be the only person proud of having a speech problem. Go for speech theraphy i say!)
I decide to do some kinda analysis on the 'all guys are the same" statement. Let's define the key terms first.
all :Being or representing the entire or total number, amount, or quantity
guy : Informal a man or youth
same : identical in kind, quantity
So going by the definition i stated above, i interpret that those who say "all guys are the same", are trying to say that.. all men, including youths, are identical in all aspects.
Let's analyze this statement then.
First, yes u are right,but only if you were damn literal about it. This is gonna sound lame but yes, all guys are the same because... they are all guys! bingo. It's the most basic level. Like when you say all human beings are the same because they need air, water and food to survive.
But besides that, this statement = total bullshit + lack of any evidence of any further thought on this topic.
Don't ask me why it bothers me. I am not sure. Really. but it does. it's like.. I take it damn personally esp when i sense the negative overtones. Of course u don't mean it in this sense ==> "all guys are the same! they all rock!!!!=))))" u mean it in the "all guys are just the same. they all suck!" sense.
now did u just insult all the great men in my life? Do you have any idea how great my dad is? do u have a rough idea how much love my uncle is capable of? or do you know how protective my bro is? And how abt muzzy and the very few but fantastic guy friends that i have? They are out of the ordinary; they are amazing. Now what do you say to that? give me an answer!
Assuming in today's context, we have full autonomy to decide on who we want to be friends with, only you are to blame if you get to know all the black sheeps .How is it fair u tell me. you drag the whole of the guy population into your damn problem and say all guys are the same just because your black sheep sucks. Isn't it your fault that you get to know all the wrong guys whose personalities/lifestyle/character doesn't match yours?
And really.. if you have a problem with a guy, then you have a prob with him and him alone. personal and public, 2 different areas. don't blur the lines. just because you think one guys sucks, dun conclude that all guys suck. Extrapolating is not always a wise thing to do.
So it's simple. Don't generalize. Don't. Because it usually isn't true. Just because one guy cheated on you or just because you had a couple of bad relationships, you can't conclude that all guys suck. It doesn't work that way. Plus if u make such statements, people might end up thinking you aren't capable of much thinking. Cause the truth is, all guys are just different!
I din deal with the "all girls are the same!" part of the story, caz i haven't come across any guy fren who's said such stuff. Well, it could also be that girls just rock but come on, that cannot be the case. It just means that i've done such a good job with carefully picking out my guy friends that none of them say such ridiculous stuff! I cannot say the same for the girls tho. Sad but true!
So let me conclude with this. All guys are just NOT the same. definitely not!
Seriously, don't tell me you fell for that! Of course that was fake! hahah.
Okie now let's come to the point. I typed out that whole paragraph not just for fun. That's the reaction you are likely to (not always though) get when a girl just had a bad break up. No brainer right.. This is what usually follows the break up.
1. they are all reduced to the same cliche ==> "All guys are just the same." (This is the same guy they said they would love forever and ever and ever till their last breath just some time ago).
2. suddenly, you'd see them saying stuff like "I have many other stuff to concentrate on anw, i shouldn't be wasting my time on relationships now." (why did u commit urself in a r/s in the first place? bad loser.)
3. They attack love. What u may see is "true love is for fools", "true love does not exist" and the funniest of the lot, "love is a word i will never learn to pronounce" (If i'm not wrong this is from some song, one of my facebook fren had this as her nick. funny i tell you. You must be the only person proud of having a speech problem. Go for speech theraphy i say!)
I decide to do some kinda analysis on the 'all guys are the same" statement. Let's define the key terms first.
all :Being or representing the entire or total number, amount, or quantity
guy : Informal a man or youth
same : identical in kind, quantity
So going by the definition i stated above, i interpret that those who say "all guys are the same", are trying to say that.. all men, including youths, are identical in all aspects.
Let's analyze this statement then.
First, yes u are right,but only if you were damn literal about it. This is gonna sound lame but yes, all guys are the same because... they are all guys! bingo. It's the most basic level. Like when you say all human beings are the same because they need air, water and food to survive.
But besides that, this statement = total bullshit + lack of any evidence of any further thought on this topic.
Don't ask me why it bothers me. I am not sure. Really. but it does. it's like.. I take it damn personally esp when i sense the negative overtones. Of course u don't mean it in this sense ==> "all guys are the same! they all rock!!!!=))))" u mean it in the "all guys are just the same. they all suck!" sense.
now did u just insult all the great men in my life? Do you have any idea how great my dad is? do u have a rough idea how much love my uncle is capable of? or do you know how protective my bro is? And how abt muzzy and the very few but fantastic guy friends that i have? They are out of the ordinary; they are amazing. Now what do you say to that? give me an answer!
Assuming in today's context, we have full autonomy to decide on who we want to be friends with, only you are to blame if you get to know all the black sheeps .How is it fair u tell me. you drag the whole of the guy population into your damn problem and say all guys are the same just because your black sheep sucks. Isn't it your fault that you get to know all the wrong guys whose personalities/lifestyle/character doesn't match yours?
And really.. if you have a problem with a guy, then you have a prob with him and him alone. personal and public, 2 different areas. don't blur the lines. just because you think one guys sucks, dun conclude that all guys suck. Extrapolating is not always a wise thing to do.
So it's simple. Don't generalize. Don't. Because it usually isn't true. Just because one guy cheated on you or just because you had a couple of bad relationships, you can't conclude that all guys suck. It doesn't work that way. Plus if u make such statements, people might end up thinking you aren't capable of much thinking. Cause the truth is, all guys are just different!
I din deal with the "all girls are the same!" part of the story, caz i haven't come across any guy fren who's said such stuff. Well, it could also be that girls just rock but come on, that cannot be the case. It just means that i've done such a good job with carefully picking out my guy friends that none of them say such ridiculous stuff! I cannot say the same for the girls tho. Sad but true!
So let me conclude with this. All guys are just NOT the same. definitely not!
Sunday, December 6, 2009
faceboook.
I think it's facebook.
I used to have alot to say about alot of things happening around me.
But facebook has made me think of the shortest possible way to sum up what i'm feeling. If i've no inspiration to blog, all I wanna say is "Naseemah Yacob is slowly losing the inspiration to blog". Not go into the 5Ws and 1H of why i've lost the inspiration to blog.
BUT I still enjoy writing long long longg paragraphs so if i've a burning zeal to blog about certain stuf, i still will. I just need time to get over the facebook syndrome for now.
I used to have alot to say about alot of things happening around me.
But facebook has made me think of the shortest possible way to sum up what i'm feeling. If i've no inspiration to blog, all I wanna say is "Naseemah Yacob is slowly losing the inspiration to blog". Not go into the 5Ws and 1H of why i've lost the inspiration to blog.
BUT I still enjoy writing long long longg paragraphs so if i've a burning zeal to blog about certain stuf, i still will. I just need time to get over the facebook syndrome for now.
Friday, November 27, 2009
Thursday, July 16, 2009
What comes arnd must have gone arnd.
I dunno if my thoughts are ridiculous but i won't shy away from voicing them out.
I was watching globe trekker this morning and there was this woman talking about karma. and as usual it got me thinking. I'm not knowledgeable in this area and i haven thought in-depth abt the whole karma concept so pardon me if my thoughts seem rather childish/ill-developed or if they dun make any sense. lol.
let's come to the pt. many a times, when someone wrongs me or sth bad befalls me, i'm quick to say "why did it have to happen to me! what goes arnd comes arnd! whoever did this to me will surely suffer!' and with frens who have any probs, i'm quick to console them with the same dialogue. "dun worry, wat goes arnd comes arnd. he/she will surely pay the price."
but along the way, i started to realise that i'm not this perfect human being and i definitely have erred in many areas. tt's when i started to think more abt the whole 'what goes arnd comes arnd' thing. i mean if wad goes arnd comes arnd, wad comes arnd must have gone arnd, no? why do we act like we're truly 'victimised' when sth bad befalls us? shouldn't we be taking a step back to ponder if we have done sth wrong to some1, and if as a result we're paying the price? i'm not saying all of us are fundamentally evil or all of us are wrongdoers. maybe in some cases, god's jus testing us. but still.. given tt no one is perfect and everyone has probably erred in certain areas in life,(of caz some more than others), it doesn make sense to quickly qtn wad u've done to get such a treatment or for such a mishap to befall u whenever sth goes wrong.
as for me, i 'm not gonna ask myself "what did i do to deserve this??!!" caz i think i know the answer. also makes me feel less miserable when problems strike. well, better than wallowing in self-pity anyday.
I was watching globe trekker this morning and there was this woman talking about karma. and as usual it got me thinking. I'm not knowledgeable in this area and i haven thought in-depth abt the whole karma concept so pardon me if my thoughts seem rather childish/ill-developed or if they dun make any sense. lol.
let's come to the pt. many a times, when someone wrongs me or sth bad befalls me, i'm quick to say "why did it have to happen to me! what goes arnd comes arnd! whoever did this to me will surely suffer!' and with frens who have any probs, i'm quick to console them with the same dialogue. "dun worry, wat goes arnd comes arnd. he/she will surely pay the price."
but along the way, i started to realise that i'm not this perfect human being and i definitely have erred in many areas. tt's when i started to think more abt the whole 'what goes arnd comes arnd' thing. i mean if wad goes arnd comes arnd, wad comes arnd must have gone arnd, no? why do we act like we're truly 'victimised' when sth bad befalls us? shouldn't we be taking a step back to ponder if we have done sth wrong to some1, and if as a result we're paying the price? i'm not saying all of us are fundamentally evil or all of us are wrongdoers. maybe in some cases, god's jus testing us. but still.. given tt no one is perfect and everyone has probably erred in certain areas in life,(of caz some more than others), it doesn make sense to quickly qtn wad u've done to get such a treatment or for such a mishap to befall u whenever sth goes wrong.
as for me, i 'm not gonna ask myself "what did i do to deserve this??!!" caz i think i know the answer. also makes me feel less miserable when problems strike. well, better than wallowing in self-pity anyday.
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
trouble trouble
2 incidents i wanna blog about.
1st, last nite, i found myself lying in bed for a long longg time unable to get some shut eye despite me being rather tired.
Not knowing wad to do, i decided to 'explore' my basic nokia phone which really doesn have any interesting features.
Click. Starhub->lifestye->horoscope->pisces. Message sent.
okie now u must be thinking i follow all those daily horoscope religiously. But i don't. i was expecting sth like "do not get angry today. it won't do u good" or "do not spend on impulse today. it mite not be sth u need" who doesn already know those stuff? But yesterday i was freaked out caz the message read :
"You may spend much of this monday morning in the gathering or reviewing of unusual information for a teaching job."
I really was lor! And the thing is I dun usually prepare worksheets for my tuition lessons but yesterday I did spend a gud part of my morning doing up a worksheet and taking down phrases and all. Weirdd.
2nd, i was on my way home from tb with my sister when i spotted my sister's pri sch fren. This girl and my sis dun exactly get along. So i told my sister she should jus act normally and we started walking. The girl's sister must have seen us from a distance and she whispered sth to her sister and they both turned in our direction with a look in her face tt certainly annoyed me. WAHHH, DAMN DISCRETE LAH YOU GIRLS. I SWEAR I DIN KNOW U GUYS WERE TALKING ABT MY SISTER.
ANd so my sis was annoyed and she was telling me we should jus change direction so as to aviod them. but i insisted tt we walk pass them. And when we were close enuf to those girls, in a voice as loud as i could manage, i said "I mean if people wanna talk about you, they shouldn make it SOOOOOO obvious. tsk tsk."
Must have seen the look on tt girl's face. Priceless. Mr hamzah used to say, don't trouble trouble unless trouble troubles u!
1st, last nite, i found myself lying in bed for a long longg time unable to get some shut eye despite me being rather tired.
Not knowing wad to do, i decided to 'explore' my basic nokia phone which really doesn have any interesting features.
Click. Starhub->lifestye->horoscope->pisces. Message sent.
okie now u must be thinking i follow all those daily horoscope religiously. But i don't. i was expecting sth like "do not get angry today. it won't do u good" or "do not spend on impulse today. it mite not be sth u need" who doesn already know those stuff? But yesterday i was freaked out caz the message read :
"You may spend much of this monday morning in the gathering or reviewing of unusual information for a teaching job."
I really was lor! And the thing is I dun usually prepare worksheets for my tuition lessons but yesterday I did spend a gud part of my morning doing up a worksheet and taking down phrases and all. Weirdd.
2nd, i was on my way home from tb with my sister when i spotted my sister's pri sch fren. This girl and my sis dun exactly get along. So i told my sister she should jus act normally and we started walking. The girl's sister must have seen us from a distance and she whispered sth to her sister and they both turned in our direction with a look in her face tt certainly annoyed me. WAHHH, DAMN DISCRETE LAH YOU GIRLS. I SWEAR I DIN KNOW U GUYS WERE TALKING ABT MY SISTER.
ANd so my sis was annoyed and she was telling me we should jus change direction so as to aviod them. but i insisted tt we walk pass them. And when we were close enuf to those girls, in a voice as loud as i could manage, i said "I mean if people wanna talk about you, they shouldn make it SOOOOOO obvious. tsk tsk."
Must have seen the look on tt girl's face. Priceless. Mr hamzah used to say, don't trouble trouble unless trouble troubles u!
Sunday, May 31, 2009
Growing up
I was wondering today how it would feel to be a parent and as usual, my train of thoughts led me somewhere else. Not exactly linked but not totally unrelated either.
I'm not too sure about how it is with other siblings but as far as i'm concerned, this whole 'sister sister' thing did not come about very naturally for me and my younger sister.
For one, she was always this 'little girl' to me.
When i was about 5-6, i used to be busy preparing imaginary lessons and conducting imaginary classes for imaginary students,(ah yes, i loved to play teacher!). while she was this little toddler who was just learning how to take her first few steps. These were the earlier years where i very vaguely remember stuff. I dun know how i felt whe she was born. i don't know if i used to dote on her. I don't know when she took her first steps. I don't know if i was ever close to her. All i know now is that, she was this really little girl to me.
As i went on to upper pri and sec sch, jus as i was getting used to a few new 'rules' like "talk back to your parents whenever you can" and "hang out only with cool ppl" and "hang on the phone as much as you can" and "going home straight after school is totally uncool", she was this little girl again who had no choice but to succumb to every of my parents' demands and learn stuff i learnt eons ago like "matter is anything that has weight and occupies space."
Make a wild guess what happened after that? Well, when i was in Jc and herself in sec sch, it first hit me. "Oh my god.. we're both teenagers! she's no more the little girl she used to be!!" That realisation wasn't exactly positive. While i was coming out of those 'rules' i lived by for a few yrs, she's probably gonna start learning them. I cannot treat her like I used to say a yr or 2 ago, simply because she's no more a little girl! i can't say stuff like "DO WHAT I SAY IF NOT THE BELT WILL GO FLYING AT YOUR FACE!" because I can't expect submission. i can only expect attitude! and that's really gonna suck.
I used to wonder back in jc how I should go about with my sister. I rmb feeling suddenly like i had to be a role-model(HAHAHAH.) and i used to be very cautious about what I tell her. I avoided the topic abt my relationship altogether. Don't even ask me why. Call me typical but i was afraid she was gonna learn from me and find herself a bf too!
That was me a few years ago. If you know me well enough, you would know that me and nazeera are indeed very close now. closer than I ever would have guessed. we do have our occasional tiffs but tt's jus sibling rivalry and wad's sisterhood abt if u cant even fight with ur sister?
I wouldn't say we're how we are today because a miracle happened and we just became close overnight. that's why i started off saying the whole process wasn't quite natural. It didn't just happen. I can say very surely that we've both put in quite a bit of time and effort to get here. I rarely find a reason to keep anything away from my younger sis nowadays. (n of caz, she knows evrything about my relationship as well) we now have the give and take policy which goes sth like this: When i'm out with muzzy, u help me cover up. If u do anything silly, i'll help u cover up!
I've learnt quite a bit from this whole journey which is set to continue. 1, in any kind of relationship, you have really got to give and take. you can't just expect the other person to tell you about their experiences, you've got to share as well. 2, extremes do not work. you're doomed if you try to be overly authoritative with anybody. well it may work with some but as for me, i'm scared of the boomerang effect. 3, there needs to be trust. I don't belive in controlling every aspect of my sister's life. but i'm fine with her having her freedom(which my parents have problems trusting her with for reasons known only to them and god) on the accord that she doesn't break my trust. Simple.
Well yes, i think this is not totally unrelated to parenting.. with this, I hope i'll make a gud parent to my children in future.. All i can think of now is, "LUCKY KIDS!!" hahahaha. okie that's extremely thick-skinned and I shouldn't be thinking that far. till another time!
I'm not too sure about how it is with other siblings but as far as i'm concerned, this whole 'sister sister' thing did not come about very naturally for me and my younger sister.
For one, she was always this 'little girl' to me.
When i was about 5-6, i used to be busy preparing imaginary lessons and conducting imaginary classes for imaginary students,(ah yes, i loved to play teacher!). while she was this little toddler who was just learning how to take her first few steps. These were the earlier years where i very vaguely remember stuff. I dun know how i felt whe she was born. i don't know if i used to dote on her. I don't know when she took her first steps. I don't know if i was ever close to her. All i know now is that, she was this really little girl to me.
As i went on to upper pri and sec sch, jus as i was getting used to a few new 'rules' like "talk back to your parents whenever you can" and "hang out only with cool ppl" and "hang on the phone as much as you can" and "going home straight after school is totally uncool", she was this little girl again who had no choice but to succumb to every of my parents' demands and learn stuff i learnt eons ago like "matter is anything that has weight and occupies space."
Make a wild guess what happened after that? Well, when i was in Jc and herself in sec sch, it first hit me. "Oh my god.. we're both teenagers! she's no more the little girl she used to be!!" That realisation wasn't exactly positive. While i was coming out of those 'rules' i lived by for a few yrs, she's probably gonna start learning them. I cannot treat her like I used to say a yr or 2 ago, simply because she's no more a little girl! i can't say stuff like "DO WHAT I SAY IF NOT THE BELT WILL GO FLYING AT YOUR FACE!" because I can't expect submission. i can only expect attitude! and that's really gonna suck.
I used to wonder back in jc how I should go about with my sister. I rmb feeling suddenly like i had to be a role-model(HAHAHAH.) and i used to be very cautious about what I tell her. I avoided the topic abt my relationship altogether. Don't even ask me why. Call me typical but i was afraid she was gonna learn from me and find herself a bf too!
That was me a few years ago. If you know me well enough, you would know that me and nazeera are indeed very close now. closer than I ever would have guessed. we do have our occasional tiffs but tt's jus sibling rivalry and wad's sisterhood abt if u cant even fight with ur sister?
I wouldn't say we're how we are today because a miracle happened and we just became close overnight. that's why i started off saying the whole process wasn't quite natural. It didn't just happen. I can say very surely that we've both put in quite a bit of time and effort to get here. I rarely find a reason to keep anything away from my younger sis nowadays. (n of caz, she knows evrything about my relationship as well) we now have the give and take policy which goes sth like this: When i'm out with muzzy, u help me cover up. If u do anything silly, i'll help u cover up!
I've learnt quite a bit from this whole journey which is set to continue. 1, in any kind of relationship, you have really got to give and take. you can't just expect the other person to tell you about their experiences, you've got to share as well. 2, extremes do not work. you're doomed if you try to be overly authoritative with anybody. well it may work with some but as for me, i'm scared of the boomerang effect. 3, there needs to be trust. I don't belive in controlling every aspect of my sister's life. but i'm fine with her having her freedom(which my parents have problems trusting her with for reasons known only to them and god) on the accord that she doesn't break my trust. Simple.
Well yes, i think this is not totally unrelated to parenting.. with this, I hope i'll make a gud parent to my children in future.. All i can think of now is, "LUCKY KIDS!!" hahahaha. okie that's extremely thick-skinned and I shouldn't be thinking that far. till another time!
Sunday, April 19, 2009
Saturday, April 11, 2009
compatible
What's compatibility all about?
Everytime my mom returns from a wedding, she'd casually comment "the bride and bridegroom very compatible! they look soo nice together!" or "the couple so not compatible! the guy sooo big, the girl so small!" etc etc.
Not jus my mom, I feel many look at compatibily as just physical compatibily. the qtn is, 'do they look gud together when they're out?" But as far as i'm concerned, tt's wad compatibility in a relationship isn't about.
I know there are some who think Muzzy and I are not compatible. I absolutely disagree. But tell me u think we're physically no match and I will agree whole-heartedly. I mean come on. he's tall, i'm short. he's fair, i'm dark. he's smalll, i'm biggggggggg. we're jus soo opposite physically. (i dun intend to do anything abt my skin colour neither do i intend to take complan to become taller but one day, one fine day i shall bcum jus as sexy as muzzy! hehehehh)
As for me, i feel compatibility is beyond what's on the outside. I would believe a couple are compatible if they're able to exist in harmony together, if they have similar thoughts pertaining to important life issues and even if there are differences between, them they're able to complement one another. By this definition,I think we're compatible. U've no idea how it amuses me when muzzy finishes my sentences or has the same view/opinion/likes/dislikes as me. it can get so exciting to know there's a soul in the world who thinks just like you do. and when there's differences, I'm the least bothered caz i know those differences are respected. so now tell me, we're compatible aren't we?
But i admit it's nice to see couples who look gud together on top of being compatible! haha this is random but as i finished typing the last sentence, there were 3 couples on my mind! my bestest buddy Siti and her bf Ashraff, Yasmin and her hubby n Naf and Sham! I think they look so nicee together. it's like an added bonus! :)
Everytime my mom returns from a wedding, she'd casually comment "the bride and bridegroom very compatible! they look soo nice together!" or "the couple so not compatible! the guy sooo big, the girl so small!" etc etc.
Not jus my mom, I feel many look at compatibily as just physical compatibily. the qtn is, 'do they look gud together when they're out?" But as far as i'm concerned, tt's wad compatibility in a relationship isn't about.
I know there are some who think Muzzy and I are not compatible. I absolutely disagree. But tell me u think we're physically no match and I will agree whole-heartedly. I mean come on. he's tall, i'm short. he's fair, i'm dark. he's smalll, i'm biggggggggg. we're jus soo opposite physically. (i dun intend to do anything abt my skin colour neither do i intend to take complan to become taller but one day, one fine day i shall bcum jus as sexy as muzzy! hehehehh)
As for me, i feel compatibility is beyond what's on the outside. I would believe a couple are compatible if they're able to exist in harmony together, if they have similar thoughts pertaining to important life issues and even if there are differences between, them they're able to complement one another. By this definition,I think we're compatible. U've no idea how it amuses me when muzzy finishes my sentences or has the same view/opinion/likes/dislikes as me. it can get so exciting to know there's a soul in the world who thinks just like you do. and when there's differences, I'm the least bothered caz i know those differences are respected. so now tell me, we're compatible aren't we?
But i admit it's nice to see couples who look gud together on top of being compatible! haha this is random but as i finished typing the last sentence, there were 3 couples on my mind! my bestest buddy Siti and her bf Ashraff, Yasmin and her hubby n Naf and Sham! I think they look so nicee together. it's like an added bonus! :)
Friday, April 3, 2009
ten
1) I need more discipline and control in my life.
2) I think acting dumb/blur is cool and has it's advantages.
3) Give me ur opinion only when i ask for it. in case u happen to have sth to say for anything and everything abt me, i go by the one-ear-in-one-ear-out rule.
4) I'm starting to dislike sms. it's either i forget to reply or i'm too lazy to. I'd rather settle stuff over the phone.
5) I think it's mean to put some1 down bacaz of the way they look,wad they wear,how they walk etc etc. i see it happening among girls esp n i get really annoyed.But of caz, me being me, i dun usually say anything. ( i mite hve done it in the past tho i resolve not to do tt anymore.)
6) I'm very big on respect but i dun believe in respecting some1 just because they're older than i am. i need better reasons to respect any1.
7) I miss jc life n vits and deeps and nivy and machan and 33/06!
8) I wish for a certain family member of mine to be less of a tension party.
9) Any girl who has a bro who loves her, dotes on her and most importantly, shows her that he loves her, is an object of my hmmmmmmmmmm.. jealousy.
10) watching confessions of a shopaholic was like a wake up call. I seriously need to stop spending!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and my younger sis is the best financial consultant.
2) I think acting dumb/blur is cool and has it's advantages.
3) Give me ur opinion only when i ask for it. in case u happen to have sth to say for anything and everything abt me, i go by the one-ear-in-one-ear-out rule.
4) I'm starting to dislike sms. it's either i forget to reply or i'm too lazy to. I'd rather settle stuff over the phone.
5) I think it's mean to put some1 down bacaz of the way they look,wad they wear,how they walk etc etc. i see it happening among girls esp n i get really annoyed.But of caz, me being me, i dun usually say anything. ( i mite hve done it in the past tho i resolve not to do tt anymore.)
6) I'm very big on respect but i dun believe in respecting some1 just because they're older than i am. i need better reasons to respect any1.
7) I miss jc life n vits and deeps and nivy and machan and 33/06!
8) I wish for a certain family member of mine to be less of a tension party.
9) Any girl who has a bro who loves her, dotes on her and most importantly, shows her that he loves her, is an object of my hmmmmmmmmmm.. jealousy.
10) watching confessions of a shopaholic was like a wake up call. I seriously need to stop spending!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and my younger sis is the best financial consultant.
Sunday, March 15, 2009
2
Happy 2 years to us.
I've got no long msgs,I dunno wad the future holds.
I'm just very thankful god put you in my life and me in yours for the past 2 yrs++
May this relationship that we both have given quite a bit to build stay strong. Ameen.
I've got no long msgs,I dunno wad the future holds.
I'm just very thankful god put you in my life and me in yours for the past 2 yrs++
May this relationship that we both have given quite a bit to build stay strong. Ameen.
Thursday, February 26, 2009
2oth
It's been twenty donkey years!
Happy Birthday Dearest Nafeesah Ka
and Happy Birthday to myself!
May this day turn out to be
as special as you are to me
and I am to you.
Muackss.
Friday, February 13, 2009
wishlist.
TGIT! yes i know it's supposed to be TGIF but hey rmb i've got a 3-day sch week tt ends on thurs? on a thurs nite, i'm as glad as u are on a friday night. hehe.
Today was.. kinda productive. I dunno whens the last time i managed to get so much done in a day.
SO in 2 weeks time, it's D DAY. yeap my bday. be careful if u're gonna ask me wad i want for formality's sake caz u're not gonna hear "eh no lah.. dun need to get me anything.. jus wish me will do!" who am i kidding. there are so many things tt i want! hehe. and since i'm quite nice and i dun wan u to be cracking ur head over wad to get me, i've come up with a bday wishlist! so here goess!
Today was.. kinda productive. I dunno whens the last time i managed to get so much done in a day.
SO in 2 weeks time, it's D DAY. yeap my bday. be careful if u're gonna ask me wad i want for formality's sake caz u're not gonna hear "eh no lah.. dun need to get me anything.. jus wish me will do!" who am i kidding. there are so many things tt i want! hehe. and since i'm quite nice and i dun wan u to be cracking ur head over wad to get me, i've come up with a bday wishlist! so here goess!
#10 : Garlock!!
Caz i love her so and i want her entire collection! i intend to open a mini Dorothy garlock library in my hse. Hehe.
#9:Treadmill!
Do i even need to explain? I badly need to lose weight. I love my morning workout sessions with sugan but wudn it just be cool to own a treadmill?
#8: London weight Management
Again i’m not gonna explain. This would be great. Oh and it has to be unlimited for a duration of 1 yr or sth.. HAHA.
#7: New York Skin Solution.
I want a clear face with no pimples. Grrr. So yes, it has to unlimited not for a yr only, until my face becomes clear again!
#6: A romantic weekend getaway for 2!
Lovely!!=)
#5: Sony Digi cam
OKie there's a digi cam at home but it's my dad's.. and it definitely wudn hurt if i had one to call my own! hehehe. After some experimenting i realise i like sony digi cam the most. their colours are so striking!
#4: Sony Viao P
I love my laptop but there’s one problem - the weight. It’s a torture to carry a 2.2kg laptop all arnd hilly nus i tell you. the best way to go : Sony Vaio P series =))
#3: Samsung Omnia
I’m so in love with this phone! My current obsession.
#2: CAR LICENSE
You know i’ve been wanting to get my car license since last yr.. Just get it for me, somehow. Haha
#1: PICANTO
What’s a license if i don't own a car to put my driving skills to use? Dun need to get me a SUV or a sports car.. jus a small one like picanto wud do.. I currently have my eye on this really cute green one! heheh.
There u have it, my wishlist for my 20th. so if u've already read it, dun pretend like u nvr visited my blog and u had better make sure u get me sth from here.!heheh.
Saturday, February 7, 2009
Mummmyyy.
Wow, i've yet to do anything productive today.. wad a boring day it's been!
it's not that i've no work to do. there's LOTS to be done. i dunno wad i'm waiting for.. grrrr.
Anyway, i wanted to blog abt my mom. No i'm not gonna be complaining. haha. the day before muzzy's bday, i msged my mom. this is how our sms convo progressed..(oh yes, i needa add. my mom has no clue tt me and muzzy have been going out!)
Me: tmr muzzy's bday. I wanna go out with him.
Mom: So wad if it is his bday. Is it a must that u must go out with him.
Me: of caz it's a must!
Mom sorry i dun gif permission. Ask ur dad.
Me: No i will go! how come naf can go..
Mom: nowadays u talk alot. but sorry cannot go.
(i din bother replying and after a while she msged baq..)
Mom: Ok joking. Go lah.But one condition. Make sure u dun hold hands ha ha ha . .
this really made me think that... my mom is soo innocent and okie i admit it, kinda cute. i mean i really feel so guilty tt she believes me and muzzy haf nvr met outside. she doesn't even suspect me a little! if only she gets to know abt our meetings and all.. i can jus imagine how disappointed she'd be!
But honestly, i dun understand her one rule : Can have bf but cannot go out. ???!!! wads the pt..
Oh and not only thatt. There's so many other things abt my mom that I dun understand. You see, the prob is, whenever she steps inside my room, the room's sumhow in a mess. Trust me, there are times when my room's as clean as a whistle. Just that when when my mom appears, it's not. And at moments like this, I know wad's awaiting me. An angry oration about how me and my siblings are the most messy kids in the whole wide world and how other kids keep their rooms sparkling clean. then she would go on and on abt how other kids are just better than us in all aspects. But of caz, it didn't have any effect on any of us. Especially caz we all knew very well that most kids were probably just like us and my mom's just building a mountain out of a molehill. Come on, everytime i go to a frens place randomly, i always hear this. "hey dun mind my room. it's not quite clean todae..." i would readily add, "oh dun worry, mine's like tt most of the time ;)" haha. the pt is, my mom's not being realistic,again. most siblings probably dun't keep their rooms clean all the time, they probably fight like us, they're probably as lazy as us and probably dun help around at home all the time like us and the list goes on. hmmm..is it jus my mom or are all moms like tt?
ohh and my mom has a special skill. she can link everything up effortlessly. let's say she initially starts with scolding me abt my room being soo messy, it would end with "you're always going out! stop going out so much!" it's hard to sit down and talk things out this way caz i'm interested in talking out the issue at hand but my mom cannot help bringing in one prob after another. So like that how?
I'm not sure. Again,i'm not saying my mom's evil, mean etc etc. There's really no one who cares as much as she does. There's really no one who'd love me the way she does. But there's some stuff that's just hard to comprehend!
Just gotta live with it for now. I just hope I don't do this to my kids in future. Who knows, I just might.
it's not that i've no work to do. there's LOTS to be done. i dunno wad i'm waiting for.. grrrr.
Anyway, i wanted to blog abt my mom. No i'm not gonna be complaining. haha. the day before muzzy's bday, i msged my mom. this is how our sms convo progressed..(oh yes, i needa add. my mom has no clue tt me and muzzy have been going out!)
Me: tmr muzzy's bday. I wanna go out with him.
Mom: So wad if it is his bday. Is it a must that u must go out with him.
Me: of caz it's a must!
Mom sorry i dun gif permission. Ask ur dad.
Me: No i will go! how come naf can go..
Mom: nowadays u talk alot. but sorry cannot go.
(i din bother replying and after a while she msged baq..)
Mom: Ok joking. Go lah.But one condition. Make sure u dun hold hands ha ha ha . .
this really made me think that... my mom is soo innocent and okie i admit it, kinda cute. i mean i really feel so guilty tt she believes me and muzzy haf nvr met outside. she doesn't even suspect me a little! if only she gets to know abt our meetings and all.. i can jus imagine how disappointed she'd be!
But honestly, i dun understand her one rule : Can have bf but cannot go out. ???!!! wads the pt..
Oh and not only thatt. There's so many other things abt my mom that I dun understand. You see, the prob is, whenever she steps inside my room, the room's sumhow in a mess. Trust me, there are times when my room's as clean as a whistle. Just that when when my mom appears, it's not. And at moments like this, I know wad's awaiting me. An angry oration about how me and my siblings are the most messy kids in the whole wide world and how other kids keep their rooms sparkling clean. then she would go on and on abt how other kids are just better than us in all aspects. But of caz, it didn't have any effect on any of us. Especially caz we all knew very well that most kids were probably just like us and my mom's just building a mountain out of a molehill. Come on, everytime i go to a frens place randomly, i always hear this. "hey dun mind my room. it's not quite clean todae..." i would readily add, "oh dun worry, mine's like tt most of the time ;)" haha. the pt is, my mom's not being realistic,again. most siblings probably dun't keep their rooms clean all the time, they probably fight like us, they're probably as lazy as us and probably dun help around at home all the time like us and the list goes on. hmmm..is it jus my mom or are all moms like tt?
ohh and my mom has a special skill. she can link everything up effortlessly. let's say she initially starts with scolding me abt my room being soo messy, it would end with "you're always going out! stop going out so much!" it's hard to sit down and talk things out this way caz i'm interested in talking out the issue at hand but my mom cannot help bringing in one prob after another. So like that how?
I'm not sure. Again,i'm not saying my mom's evil, mean etc etc. There's really no one who cares as much as she does. There's really no one who'd love me the way she does. But there's some stuff that's just hard to comprehend!
Just gotta live with it for now. I just hope I don't do this to my kids in future. Who knows, I just might.
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